We're constantly discussing our upcoming move—not just here on the blog, but every day at home too. There's plenty to handle: planning renovations, brainstorming ideas, organizing the logistics, enlisting friends for help, and tackling all the practical details. As parents with years of homeownership experience, we know it's crucial to involve our children early so they feel settled and secure in the new house quickly.
We've checked off several items on our moving checklist, but much remains. The kids aren't fazed by the logistics—they're more focused on what matters to them. Their questions and comments reveal how the move occupies their thoughts.
This week, I asked what they love most about the new house and what they'll miss from the old one. They listed essentials they insist on bringing. While we aim to make the new place feel like home, some compromises are inevitable.
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I was genuinely surprised by their choices. These are things I didn't realize they cherished so much in our current home.
Both kids immediately said they'd miss the bathroom. Our current one is modern and spacious, while the new house's is dated. I recently shared tips on refurbishing an old bathroom on a budget, but the kids want a full remodel—which isn't feasible right now. Their logical follow-up: "Why not take the bathroom with us?" I explained some fixtures stay behind, but we're prioritizing updates to help them adjust.
This one's no surprise. Outdoor play is key for our active family. The inground Betersport trampoline was part of the home sale and stays. Closing that hole would be a hassle anyway. We'll install a new above-ground model with safety netting for better jumping and security. For trampoline buying advice from our experience, check my detailed guide. Even at ages 9 and 14, it's their favorite toy—perfect for fun during renovations.
Our teen Luc loves convenience. The Quooker boiling water tap is a game-changer for his tea habit—no waiting for the kettle. It's a luxury we both enjoy, ranking high on his 'miss' list. A cozy tea on the couch truly enhances that homey feeling, so we're planning to install one soon.
Unexpectedly, the gas fireplace made the cut. Instant warmth and ambiance with a button click beats chopping wood—for now. The new wood stove will be great, but they'll need time to warm up to it.
Notably, bedrooms didn't top their list—they're warming to the change. Moving before summer holidays gives us ample time to acclimate. New homes bring unfamiliar sounds, layouts, and routines, so we're preserving familiar elements to ease the transition.
From our moves, keeping core furniture provides stability amid change. Swapping everything risks disrupting that sense of home—especially for kids. Our pieces will anchor the new space.
Timing the move pre-holidays is ideal. No rush decisions; just ease into routines. Prioritize this for children's sake.
Memories tie us to places. Our old home holds their childhoods, but we'll create new ones: Friday night TV, Sunday games, Luc's PC setup in my office—transplanted to the new house.
Keys on June 28, Lotte's birthday June 29—we're celebrating big! A kids' party lets them showcase the house, speeding familiarity and joy.
Hands-on participation builds ownership. Let them help pack, demo, and suggest changes. Trampoline breaks keep spirits high amid the work.
Animal lovers unite! A new pet channels affection to the home, easing adjustments. Share emotions with a furry friend, then bounce on the trampoline.
